h my god! I am sooo sorry sorry you had to go through so much at such an early age, I really can't beleive how families accept things like this. You really need to stand up at some point, so that your younger generations can also learn to stand for themselves. When things like this happen, only elders in the family can take some action, because children really don't realize how they should react. I am so glad that you found courage to vent out everything and I hope one day you can confront him for sure...remember you are strong enough !